 Is Danny Over Linda? |
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 Aug 28 2006, 07:32 PM
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I was talking to a friend of mine about this situation. She brought up some interesting ideas. She was saying it seems to her that Danny is not over Linda. If he were he would not have married someone so similar to Linda. Also, he would not be so obsessed about this whole situation. He would have just moved on and not thought anymore about Linda.
What do you all think about this theory? Does anyone know how Brandi is handling all of this? I feel really bad for her to be in this situation... |
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Aug 28 2006, 07:37 PM
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QUOTE(Uncle Sam @ Aug 28 2006, 06:32 PM) [snapback]148616[/snapback] I was talking to a friend of mine about this situation. She brought up some interesting ideas. She was saying it seems to her that Danny is not over Linda. If he were he would not have married someone so similar to Linda. Also, he would not be so obsessed about this whole situation. He would have just moved on and not thought anymore about Linda. What do you all think about this theory? Does anyone know how Brandi is handling all of this? I feel really bad for her to be in this situation... Are we sure we want to go there??  I feel horrible for Brandy. She needs our prayers. Ok, as for your theory? It's hard to "be over" someone you never treated with love and respect and honor and i could go on and on and on...but like I said, are you sure you want to go there...  -------------------- Here's the thing - "...if you pull "folks" into a fight you don't know what "weapon" they will bring." PrincessDrRe "A man who digs a pit for others to fall into, will end up falling into it himself. And if a man rolls a stone on someone, the stone will roll back on him". Said Solomon the wise, Proverbs 26:27 "No man can follow Christ and go astray." William H.P. Faunce "If I could hear Christ praying for me in the next room, I would not fear a million enemies. Yet distance makes no difference. He is praying for me." Robert M. McCheyne Click here for Linda Shelton's newly updated website |
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Aug 28 2006, 07:44 PM
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QUOTE(sonshineonme @ Aug 28 2006, 06:37 PM) [snapback]148617[/snapback] Are we sure we want to go there?? I feel horrible for Brandy. She needs our prayers. Ok, as for your theory? It's hard to "be over" someone you never treated with love and respect and honor and i could go on and on and on...but like I said, are you sure you want to go there... Were things really NEVER good? Did he never treat her right? I mean they seemed so happy until all of this whole mess started. Were they both just acting? If so, that seems so sad to me..... |
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Aug 28 2006, 07:51 PM
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QUOTE(Uncle Sam @ Aug 28 2006, 06:44 PM) [snapback]148618[/snapback] Were things really NEVER good? Did he never treat her right? I mean they seemed so happy until all of this whole mess started. Were they both just acting? If so, that seems so sad to me..... All I can tell you, and this is from personal expirence as well; it's amazing what you can do for the sake of other people (the "ministry"). It's very easy to sacrifice when it's for the good of everyone else - all that needs to be done - work work work. So acting, no. I believe with all my heart, because I know Linda, that she loved her husband deeply. She is in more shock than most people will ever ever know over ALL OF THIS and more. Dan did treat her right at times, for who knows for what motive. Only God. There are many sad things in the world.  -------------------- Here's the thing - "...if you pull "folks" into a fight you don't know what "weapon" they will bring." PrincessDrRe "A man who digs a pit for others to fall into, will end up falling into it himself. And if a man rolls a stone on someone, the stone will roll back on him". Said Solomon the wise, Proverbs 26:27 "No man can follow Christ and go astray." William H.P. Faunce "If I could hear Christ praying for me in the next room, I would not fear a million enemies. Yet distance makes no difference. He is praying for me." Robert M. McCheyne Click here for Linda Shelton's newly updated website |
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Aug 28 2006, 09:06 PM
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 PrincessDrRe  Group: Financial Donor Posts: 9,011 Joined: 8-November 04 Member No.: 712 Gender: f |
QUOTE(Uncle Sam @ Aug 28 2006, 08:32 PM) [snapback]148616[/snapback] I was talking to a friend of mine about this situation. She brought up some interesting ideas. She was saying it seems to her that Danny is not over Linda. If he were he would not have married someone so similar to Linda. Also, he would not be so obsessed about this whole situation. He would have just moved on and not thought anymore about Linda. What do you all think about this theory? Does anyone know how Brandi is handling all of this? I feel really bad for her to be in this situation... I know a man that married a woman that looked JUST LIKE HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND. Flattering? I guess so.... Errie for the "new" woman? Yeah.... Proves that they are not "over" the original women? - Maybe/maybe not.... 
-------------------- *"Some folks use their ignorance like a umbrella. It covers everything, they perodically take it out from time to time, but it never is too far away from them."*
PrincessDrRe; March, 2007 ~"Blood = Meat, Face = Meat, Internal "Organs" = Meat - you can try to make it cuter; but it's still meat...."~ PrincessDrRe; September, 2007 *(NOTE: Any advice given by Re' Silvey, MSW is not to be taken as medical/mental health advice. Although trained to be a counselor, currently employed as a therapist, and currently pursuing her PhD in Counseling Psychology (ABD/I) - she is not your assigned therapist. Please consult a mental health professional of your choice for a face-to-face consultation.)* |
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Aug 28 2006, 09:36 PM
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QUOTE(PrincessDrRe @ Aug 28 2006, 08:06 PM) [snapback]148639[/snapback] I know a man that married a woman that looked JUST LIKE HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND. Flattering? I guess so.... Errie for the "new" woman? Yeah.... Proves that they are not "over" the original women? - Maybe/maybe not.... He is more interested in a particular temperament and ability to control/conceal things. The similar looks are really not there in my opinion. 
-------------------- Here's the thing - "...if you pull "folks" into a fight you don't know what "weapon" they will bring." PrincessDrRe "A man who digs a pit for others to fall into, will end up falling into it himself. And if a man rolls a stone on someone, the stone will roll back on him". Said Solomon the wise, Proverbs 26:27 "No man can follow Christ and go astray." William H.P. Faunce "If I could hear Christ praying for me in the next room, I would not fear a million enemies. Yet distance makes no difference. He is praying for me." Robert M. McCheyne Click here for Linda Shelton's newly updated website |
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Aug 28 2006, 09:40 PM
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QUOTE(sonshineonme @ Aug 28 2006, 10:36 PM) [snapback]148647[/snapback] He is more interested in a particular temperament and ability to control/conceal things. The similar looks are really not there in my opinion. I have to agree about the looks - I don't see a resemblance. As far as the control thing - absolutely! -------------------- "The pure and simple truth is rarely pure and never simple."
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Aug 28 2006, 10:03 PM
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Aug 28 2006, 10:16 PM
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Now, I totally disagree about Linda and Brandy looking alike. However, you may have a point about Danny being so obsessed with "keeping" Linda quiet, and he activities. It doesn't jibe with the one Wh truly believes Linda did him so wrong, and has dealt with the pain and moved on. I know myself I have heard references made about Linda just the other week. I know If I were Brandy, I would not appreciate this obsession, but then I don't believe that Brandy is exactly an innocent in all this either.
QUOTE(Uncle Sam @ Aug 28 2006, 06:32 PM) [snapback]148616[/snapback] I was talking to a friend of mine about this situation. She brought up some interesting ideas. She was saying it seems to her that Danny is not over Linda. If he were he would not have married someone so similar to Linda. Also, he would not be so obsessed about this whole situation. He would have just moved on and not thought anymore about Linda. What do you all think about this theory? Does anyone know how Brandi is handling all of this? I feel really bad for her to be in this situation... -------------------- TTFN
Di And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose---Romans 8:28 A great many people believe they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices.-- William James It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.- Mark Twain |
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Aug 29 2006, 02:02 AM
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I once heard that great authority Dr Phil say that you know you are ready for divorce when you have NO feelings at all for the soon-to-be-ex. No love, no hate, no anger, no resentment, those things should be dealt with before going through a divorce.
Interesting advice - which would seem not to have been the way the Shelton divorce occurred. |
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Aug 29 2006, 07:27 AM
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QUOTE(husbandoftheyear @ Aug 28 2006, 08:40 PM) [snapback]148648[/snapback] I have to agree about the looks - I don't see a resemblance. As far as the control thing - absolutely! She did not mean that they looked alike. They were both divorced with 2 small children, new to the faith, they both sing etc..... |
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Aug 29 2006, 08:47 AM
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Ahhhh yes Sam. That is a very troubling similarity. Not to minimize the recent charge of inappropriate behavior, we know for sure that Danny is able to "distance" himself from step children very easily, as he did with Linda's son. He basically acts as if he doesn't exist, and he was with this boy 20 years. As a older(not a word Steve or Kevin), how a man treats any family, especially any children he has sired and/or parented or not, is key to my involvement with him. It is a indication of his charater.
QUOTE(Uncle Sam @ Aug 29 2006, 06:27 AM) [snapback]148687[/snapback] She did not mean that they looked alike. They were both divorced with 2 small children, new to the faith, they both sing etc..... -------------------- TTFN
Di And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose---Romans 8:28 A great many people believe they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices.-- William James It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.- Mark Twain |
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Aug 29 2006, 02:31 PM
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QUOTE(princessdi @ Aug 28 2006, 11:16 PM) [snapback]148656[/snapback] Now, I totally disagree about Linda and Brandy looking alike. However, you may have a point about Danny being so obsessed with "keeping" Linda quiet, and he activities. It doesn't jibe with the one Wh truly believes Linda did him so wrong, and has dealt with the pain and moved on. I know myself I have heard references made about Linda just the other week. I know If I were Brandy, I would not appreciate this obsession, but then I don't believe that Brandy is exactly an innocent in all this either. Why would you not believe Brandy is innocent? She met Danny after the divorce and subsequently married him. Are you saying she is not innocent due to the fact that Danny may not have had Biblical Grounds for divorce? |
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Aug 29 2006, 02:43 PM
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Why would you not believe Brandy is innocent? She met Danny after
the divorce and subsequently married him. Because I truly believe she predates Linda's departure period. I think she came some years before her departure. In fact, since Danny even had teh nerve to accuse Linda of a fictional sin, I have been waiting for the other shoe to drop. I have said from the beginning, he was having a mid-life crisis and he should have just bought a sports car. Danny is no different than any other middle-aged man who wanted to toss his wife for a younger model. They rarely end the one relationship before beginning the next. They usually run concurrent, most often without the wife's knowledge. Danny had just one complication, he was the head of a telelvision network that claimed to be the leader in christian living and a member of a church who rules say the biblical grounds for divorce were adutlery ONLY. Brandy is no different from any other woman who got caught dating a married man. Now this is all from the Book of Princess, so I just put it out there as my opinion, and gut feeling. Are you saying she is not innocent due to the fact that Danny may not have had Biblical Grounds for divorce? -------------------- TTFN
Di And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose---Romans 8:28 A great many people believe they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices.-- William James It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.- Mark Twain |
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Aug 29 2006, 03:27 PM
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QUOTE(no_cults @ Aug 29 2006, 03:31 PM) [snapback]148759[/snapback] Why would you not believe Brandy is innocent? She met Danny after the divorce and subsequently married him. Are you saying she is not innocent due to the fact that Danny may not have had Biblical Grounds for divorce? You need to do some more digging in the posts...but I'll give you a heads up. Dan knew Brandi years...and years...and years before. Only after getting Brandi groomed - you know - new style of hair, clothing, makeup - was she put in the spotlight. -------------------- "The pure and simple truth is rarely pure and never simple."
Oscar Wilde |
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