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[Guest_task force_*]

The serial bully:

• is a convincing, practised liar and when called to account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit their needs at that moment
• is glib, shallow and superficial with plenty of fine words and lots of form - but there's no substance
• is self-opinionated and displays arrogance, audacity, a superior sense of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability
• has a deep-seated contempt of clients in contrast to his or her professed compassion
• is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control everyone and everything you say, do, think and believe
• is also quick to belittle, undermine, denigrate and discredit anyone who calls, attempts to call, or might call the bully to account
• is mean-spirited, officious, and often unbelievably petty
• is constantly imposing on others a false reality made up of distortion and fabrication

There are actually more that could have gone on the list from this post alone...

I'm confused.. are you talking about yourself here???

In His service,
Mr. J

[awesumtenor]

Now you are quilty of doing what you accused so many others of doing... switching the subject from the slanderous accusations of sexual orientation of other Sheltons .. that's not going away!
THe proof exist.. why do you think Linda, since you brought her name up, is not talking now that the gag order expired at the end of December.?.. she knows there is proof! She doesn't want it out there.

By this logic, the same could be said about all of your attempts to disparage those who have put Tommy under glass...thus what they say must be true too...

Thanks for clearing that up.

In His service,
Mr. J

I'm confused.. are you talking about yourself here???

Surely you can do better than that, mollie.

In His service,
Mr. J

This post has been edited by awesumtenor: Feb 2 2007, 11:13 AM

[Skyhook]

Mr. That is an excellent, comprehensive description of DS as far I can tell from what I have seen on TV and read here. You must have given him an MMPI.

[princessdi]

I'm really not sure if I already violated this or not as I posted, a reference to being able to question one party but not the other, before seeing this notice?? If so I apologise.

But in any case just so I understand.

How does this apply to the allegations against Tommy Shelton which is posted here in almost every recent topic? and what can be posted here in regards to that?

As we have victims letters, etc. as prrof to Tommy's actions, and as Calvin says, he is a public figure. He is fair game.

His sexual orientation has been questioned as to whether he is into little boys or men...

Cindy a preference for both young men and boys would still make him homosexual. That is not in question. Evidence, thus far shows he prefers young and male. What is in question is whether he is a pedohpile.

There is also an issue of whether these things even happened and if they did whether it was assualt or consentual.

Only to those who don't want to believe the victims own words. It happens which is why many victims don't speak up and speak out.
If we can't mention someones sexual orientation, how are these things to be discussed, or proved true or false?

I do agree that members shouldn't as a rule have their private lives questioned, but if their private life is relevant to a discussion where they themselves are testifying about someone elses private life???

It is a common pratice by abusers of any kind to blame the victim. No matter the sexual preference of the victim, they have the right to refuse sexual advances from any one. It is the same as rape victims. the defense for the alleged rapist always wants to bring in the victims personal life, but that is immaterial to the fact that the rapist to that victim by force, often knowing nothing about that persons personal life. It is just as immaterial here. To put it bluntly, even if one of Tommy's victims were gay, as a married pastor, Tommy had no business approching them for sex. They have the right to refuse his advances. It is also still an abuse of his authority as a pastor and leader of his congregation. Fact is, nothing would be in question here, we would not be even having this discussion, if Tommy had asked his wife, and her only for sex. Just that simple.

[calvin]

I would ask you Calvin, how about the rights of the rest of the Shelton family? Some of them has had their sexual orintation slandered in the "televangelists" Are you going to edit those out like you did the comments about Clem? Or just edit this out and remove my membership? You have a BIG responsibility... you need to realize this.

You keep this whining up, I will remove your membership.

This needs repeating since I have not said it in awhile. “I don’t have to be fair” If I want this to be a pro-3ABN forum or a Anti-3ABN forum I can do that. It’s my board. What you need to do Task Force is adhere to my Terms of Service. If not then leave, start your forum, blog, whatever, and then you can run it the way you want too.

Those have gotten to know me, know that one of my hot buttons is “whiners”. I don’t like whinners complaining about unfair I am, why I don’t do this or that with others, etc. Whining will get you banned quicker that anything.

[Guest_task force_*]

You keep this whining up, I will remove your membership.

This needs repeating since I have not said it in awhile. “I don’t have to be fair” If I want this to be a pro-3ABN forum or a Anti-3ABN forum I can do that. It’s my board. What you need to do Task Force is adhere to my Terms of Service. If not then leave, start your forum, blog, whatever, and then you can run it the way you want too.

Those have gotten to know me, know that one of my hot buttons is “whiners”. I don’t like whinners complaining about unfair I am, why I don’t do this or that with others, etc. Whining will get you banned quicker that anything.

What a joke you are...Such PRIDE! It's oozing out of you! Now who's whinning? I will adhere to the "terms of service" when you do!
Sure remove my membership "Boss" that won't stop the lawsuit coming your direction!

[ex3ABNemployee]

What a joke you are...Such PRIDE! It's oozing out of you! Now who's whinning? I will adhere to the "terms of service" when you do!
Sure remove my membership "Boss" that won't stop the lawsuit coming your direction!

Calvin is acting a lot more Christian about this than you are.

He doesn't HAVE to have your approval. It's HIS Board.

You're free to start your own board if you don't like this one. Of course, I don't know when you'd have time to run it, seeing how you have so much to do here.

BTW, whining has only one "n".

This post has been edited by ex3ABNemployee: Feb 2 2007, 11:58 AM

[awesumtenor]

What a joke you are...Such PRIDE! It's oozing out of you! Now who's whinning? I will adhere to the "terms of service" when you do!
Sure remove my membership "Boss" that won't stop the lawsuit coming your direction!

Give it a rest with the lawsuit silliness... we're not buying it.

That last thing you people want is to have to do discovery deposition after discovery deposition and everything you say is on the record and under oath... and unless there is a grand jury involved... that stuff can be plastered all over...

Yeah... real genius move on your part...

In His service,
Mr. J

This post has been edited by awesumtenor: Feb 2 2007, 12:58 PM

[PeacefulBe]

Calvin is acting a lot more Christian about this than you are.

He doesn't HAVE to have your approval. It's HIS Board.

You're free to start your own board if you don't like this one. Of course, I don't know when you'd have time to run it, seeing how you have so much to do here.

BTW, whining has only one "n".

Perhaps he meant to write "whinnying" and forgot the "y".



Sorry, just couldn't help it.

[Nuggie]

What a joke you are...Such PRIDE! It's oozing out of you! Now who's whinning? I will adhere to the "terms of service" when you do!
Sure remove my membership "Boss" that won't stop the lawsuit coming your direction!

...wake me up when this tantrum is over...

[calvin]

What a joke you are...Such PRIDE! It's oozing out of you! Now who's whinning? I will adhere to the "terms of service" when you do!
Sure remove my membership "Boss" that won't stop the lawsuit coming your direction!

Your done here.

[inga]

To put it bluntly, even if one of Tommy's victims were gay, as a married pastor, Tommy had no business approching them for sex. They have the right to refuse his advances. It is also still an abuse of his authority as a pastor and leader of his congregation. Fact is, nothing would be in question here, we would not be even having this discussion, if Tommy had asked his wife, and her only for sex. Just that simple.[/color]

Right on, PrincessDi! Keep reminding us of the real issues!

What a joke you are...Such PRIDE! It's oozing out of you! Now who's whinning? I will adhere to the "terms of service" when you do!
Sure remove my membership "Boss" that won't stop the lawsuit coming your direction!

Now that does sound like an 3ABN administrator -- Mollie or Dan, maybe? That lawsuit reference is a dead giveaway! Now that they've alerted Gailon, more threats are likely on the way.

Hey, Calvin, please be kind to the poor beleaguered 3ABN administrators and let them keep posting! We really do want to hear their side. And Mollie is in a good position to drop some "insider" dope now & then, as is Dan.

[Clay]

see Task Force should have heeded my suggestion and tended to their 3abn bizness... but noooooooo had to antagonize the very one who could put them out..... not a bright bunch ova there...

[calvin]

Right on, PrincessDi! Keep reminding us of the real issues!
Now that does sound like an 3ABN administrator -- Mollie or Dan, maybe? That lawsuit reference is a dead giveaway! Now that they've alerted Gailon, more threats are likely on the way.

Hey, Calvin, please be kind to the poor beleaguered 3ABN administrators and let them keep posting! We really do want to hear their side. And Mollie is in a good position to drop some "insider" dope now & then, as is Dan.

They can keep posting as long as they repect me, the admins. and the rules. I warned this guy what my hot buttons where and he when right on ahead anyway.

No need for concern Inga, others will follow to take their place

see Task Force should have heeded my suggestion and tended to their 3abn bizness... but noooooooo had to antagonize the very one who could put them out..... not a bright bunch ova there...

I agree Clay. That was pretty stupid. That is if he wanted to stay here.

[princessdi]

Wake up, Nuggie!! Trantrum over! I dont' know what he was thinking........

Your done here.