 Mr. Shelton's Letter To Bsda Revisited.... |
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 Jul 15 2006, 07:55 AM
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QUOTE Hi, my name is Danny Shelton and I work for 3ABN. It's not a credit your Black SDA that it appears to be nothing more than a tabloid gossip page. Not one of the people that I could see commenting have even attempted to contact me, that I know of, about all the things they are judging me of. You do have some people in the "know" that you could find out some info from if it means that much to you. Pastor John Lomacang has spent many hours counseling with Linda and me and even made some recommendations to the board about our situation which the 3ABN board took very seriously. As of late Pastor Mark Finley has counseled with both Linda and Me. He agrees with the decision the board has taken on this issue and so does Pastor John. Several others have also counseled us and all agree with the board's action. Paula and Curtis have indeed been back to do more programming without me or Linda. Their program stands on it's own. No one has been hurt like Linda and me have been through this whole situation. We still love each other and spend considerable time together. This situation at 3ABN cannot be judged by onlookers as though you have the truth. Much of this is so personal you will probably never know what has really happened. We encourage people not to take sides, except to support the work of God on this earth. If 3ABN is of God it will continue to bring about good fruit. If it is of Satan it will bring about bad fruit. You be the judge. Please continue to pray for both Linda and me as we both want 3ABN to succeed in taking the gospel to the world. Thanks for listening Based on what we now know, our initial misgivings were correct. The statement that they were being counseled by John L. was A LIE... The statement that they were counseled by Mark Finley was A LIE.... The statements about the recommendations made by the board based on the "counseling" were A LIE.... The statement about spending lots of time together was A LIE..... The statement that they still loved each other was A LIE.... The statement about encouraging people not to take sides was A LIE..... Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord....  -------------------- "you are as sick as your secrets...." -quote from Celebrity Rehab-
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Jul 15 2006, 08:05 AM
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QUOTE(Clay @ Jul 15 2006, 06:55 AM) [snapback]139474[/snapback] Based on what we now know, our initial misgivings were correct. The statement that they were being counseled by John L. was A LIE... The statement that they were counseled by Mark Finley was A LIE.... The statements about the recommendations made by the board based on the "counseling" were A LIE.... The statement about spending lots of time together was A LIE..... The statement that they still loved each other was A LIE.... The statement about encouraging people not to take sides was A LIE..... Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord.... Every time I read this, or any other letter that is put out by someone there, it works the same way. I read between the lines and realize that someones "truth" is really a lie. Or, there is an ounce of truth and the rest lies, constued in a fashion to create a reality for the person who is reading it...(I think this is not only a lie, but minipulation of vulnerable and desiring minds). For example, where he says, "...We still love each other and spend considerable time together ", if you want to count the numerous phone calls and emails Danny made and sent to Linda since he booted her, yes, I guess you COULD SAY "spend a considerable time together". Of course, it's really all in how you look at it - but you can only twist things so much before it will finally snap, break, become another lie.  I think he's crystal clear now.-------------------- Here's the thing - "...if you pull "folks" into a fight you don't know what "weapon" they will bring." PrincessDrRe "A man who digs a pit for others to fall into, will end up falling into it himself. And if a man rolls a stone on someone, the stone will roll back on him". Said Solomon the wise, Proverbs 26:27 "No man can follow Christ and go astray." William H.P. Faunce "If I could hear Christ praying for me in the next room, I would not fear a million enemies. Yet distance makes no difference. He is praying for me." Robert M. McCheyne Click here for Linda Shelton's newly updated website |
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Jul 15 2006, 11:51 AM
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QUOTE(sonshineonme @ Jul 15 2006, 10:05 AM) [snapback]139477[/snapback] I think he's crystal clear now.What you do in de dark will come out in de light.... and he ain't gonna be lookin' so pretty for too long.... I'm waiting for all the mess to hit the fan like pow! *(Lawsuit/defamation of character....) -------------------- *"Some folks use their ignorance like a umbrella. It covers everything, they perodically take it out from time to time, but it never is too far away from them."*
PrincessDrRe; March, 2007 ~"Blood = Meat, Face = Meat, Internal "Organs" = Meat - you can try to make it cuter; but it's still meat...."~ PrincessDrRe; September, 2007 *(NOTE: Any advice given by Re' Silvey, MSW is not to be taken as medical/mental health advice. Although trained to be a counselor, currently employed as a therapist, and currently pursuing her PhD in Counseling Psychology (ABD/I) - she is not your assigned therapist. Please consult a mental health professional of your choice for a face-to-face consultation.)* |
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Jul 15 2006, 02:32 PM
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Hmmmmm........oh, hi, Clay, long time no post here, but I had to jump in quick, and make a quick post........Everything was a LIE, and when I see that, I think of how I heard he tells others Linda is a pathogical liar.........hmmmmmm, I wonder, really wonder, who he is really talking about......does anyone know?
 Just wondering.....I once heard that if you are accusing someone of something all the time, your really the guilty one?  QUOTE(Clay @ Jul 15 2006, 08:55 AM) [snapback]139474[/snapback] Based on what we now know, our initial misgivings were correct. The statement that they were being counseled by John L. was A LIE... The statement that they were counseled by Mark Finley was A LIE.... The statements about the recommendations made by the board based on the "counseling" were A LIE.... The statement about spending lots of time together was A LIE..... The statement that they still loved each other was A LIE.... The statement about encouraging people not to take sides was A LIE..... Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord.... This post has been edited by denisebyers: Jul 15 2006, 02:34 PM |
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Jul 15 2006, 02:50 PM
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QUOTE(denisebyers @ Jul 15 2006, 02:32 PM) [snapback]139511[/snapback] Hmmmmm........oh, hi, Clay, long time no post here, but I had to jump in quick, and make a quick post........Everything was a LIE, and when I see that, I think of how I heard he tells others Linda is a pathogical liar.........hmmmmmm, I wonder, really wonder, who he is really talking about......does anyone know? Just wondering.....I once heard that if you are accusing someone of something all the time, your really the guilty one? hey Denise... good to see you are alive and well... the condition you speak of is called projection, i.e. that which I accuse you of I am actually doing.... good points and thanks for sharing....don't be a stranger... -------------------- "you are as sick as your secrets...." -quote from Celebrity Rehab-
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Jul 15 2006, 03:11 PM
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Ok, so who is going to contact Danny. He seemed to be upset that no one contacted him. What be is phone #, I'll call him!
See!! Now that's what I'm talkin' about! You know, he really did not even had to come here and lie to us either. QUOTE(Clay @ Jul 15 2006, 05:55 AM) [snapback]139474[/snapback] Based on what we now know, our initial misgivings were correct. The statement that they were being counseled by John L. was A LIE... The statement that they were counseled by Mark Finley was A LIE.... The statements about the recommendations made by the board based on the "counseling" were A LIE.... The statement about spending lots of time together was A LIE..... The statement that they still loved each other was A LIE.... The statement about encouraging people not to take sides was A LIE..... Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord.... This post has been edited by princessdi: Jul 15 2006, 03:09 PM -------------------- TTFN
Di And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose---Romans 8:28 A great many people believe they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices.-- William James It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.- Mark Twain |
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Jul 15 2006, 03:16 PM
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QUOTE(princessdi @ Jul 15 2006, 04:08 PM) [snapback]139521[/snapback] Ok, so who is going to contact Danny. He seemed to be upset that no one contacted him. What be is phone #, I'll call him! LOL! Can't tell you how many times I've been sorely tempted to post all his numbers... but I wont. |
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Jul 15 2006, 03:19 PM
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Hey Bear!! Glad to see you back! Ok send it to me in a PM, I won't tell I promise! LOL!!! He just seemed so upset that no one talked to him.
QUOTE(beartrap @ Jul 15 2006, 01:16 PM) [snapback]139522[/snapback] LOL! Can't tell you how many times I've been sorely tempted to post all his numbers... but I wont. This post has been edited by princessdi: Jul 15 2006, 03:20 PM -------------------- TTFN
Di And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose---Romans 8:28 A great many people believe they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices.-- William James It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.- Mark Twain |
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Jul 15 2006, 03:26 PM
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QUOTE(denisebyers @ Jul 15 2006, 04:32 PM) [snapback]139511[/snapback] Hmmmmm........oh, hi, Clay, long time no post here, but I had to jump in quick, and make a quick post........Everything was a LIE, and when I see that, I think of how I heard he tells others Linda is a pathogical liar.........hmmmmmm, I wonder, really wonder, who he is really talking about......does anyone know? Just wondering.....I once heard that if you are accusing someone of something all the time, your really the guilty one? QUOTE(Clay @ Jul 15 2006, 04:50 PM) [snapback]139515[/snapback] hey Denise... good to see you are alive and well... the condition you speak of is called projection, i.e. that which I accuse you of I am actually doing.... good points and thanks for sharing....don't be a stranger... Well since there was some projections going on, I wonder if the cheating was also a projection. Hence the quick remarriage ...
-------------------- Lynn
 [T]he tunnel of conflict is the passageway to intimacy in any relationship.  From The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren, p 147. I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us. Let all who are spiritually mature agree on these things. If you disagree on some point, I believe God will make it plain to you. Philippians 3:14-15 (New Living Translation) [A]ctive habits are strengthened by repetition but passive ones are weakened. From The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis, p 67.  |
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Jul 15 2006, 03:39 PM
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QUOTE(denisebyers @ Jul 15 2006, 04:32 PM) [snapback]139511[/snapback] ... Just wondering.....I once heard that if you are accusing someone of something all the time, your really the guilty one? QUOTE(MissLynn @ Jul 15 2006, 05:26 PM) [snapback]139525[/snapback] Well since there was some projections going on, I wonder if the cheating was also a projection. Hence the quick remarriage ... Dead on projection! Yep! -------------------- *"Some folks use their ignorance like a umbrella. It covers everything, they perodically take it out from time to time, but it never is too far away from them."*
PrincessDrRe; March, 2007 ~"Blood = Meat, Face = Meat, Internal "Organs" = Meat - you can try to make it cuter; but it's still meat...."~ PrincessDrRe; September, 2007 *(NOTE: Any advice given by Re' Silvey, MSW is not to be taken as medical/mental health advice. Although trained to be a counselor, currently employed as a therapist, and currently pursuing her PhD in Counseling Psychology (ABD/I) - she is not your assigned therapist. Please consult a mental health professional of your choice for a face-to-face consultation.)* |
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Jul 15 2006, 03:53 PM
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QUOTE(MissLynn @ Jul 15 2006, 03:26 PM) [snapback]139525[/snapback] Well since there was some projections going on, I wonder if the cheating was also a projection. Hence the quick remarriage ... Read "The Unauthorized History of 3ABN" -- all 10 chapters. You'll find lots more things to "wonder" about. But this one will likely be answered. |
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Jul 15 2006, 03:58 PM
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Or the letter from the Dr.....I don't think there is one person who really knows who thinks he met Brandi after divorcing Linda.
I aim just really concerned about Danny being distressed this long about no BSDA members talking to him..........NOT! LOL!!! I can't even believe he said that with his tired self! Ok sorry, I was having Sista' Gurl moment. Now back to our regularaly schduled program.............  QUOTE(watchbird @ Jul 15 2006, 01:53 PM) [snapback]139531[/snapback] Read "The Unauthorized History of 3ABN" -- all 10 chapters. You'll find lots more things to "wonder" about. But this one will likely be answered. This post has been edited by princessdi: Jul 15 2006, 04:03 PM -------------------- TTFN
Di And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose---Romans 8:28 A great many people believe they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices.-- William James It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.- Mark Twain |
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Jul 15 2006, 04:23 PM
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For years, those of us close to Danny have said that if you want to know what he is up to, but won't say, just listen to what he is accusing other people of. Over the past couple of years I've heard him get rather enthusiastic in accusations of lying, cheating, spiritual adultery (Hmmm), adultery, absconding with company assets, misuse of company time, sexual molestation, etc...
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Jul 15 2006, 11:00 PM
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Jul 16 2006, 11:00 AM
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QUOTE(beartrap @ Jul 15 2006, 06:23 PM) [snapback]139535[/snapback] For years, those of us close to Danny have said that if you want to know what he is up to, but won't say, just listen to what he is accusing other people of. Over the past couple of years I've heard him get rather enthusiastic in accusations of lying, cheating, spiritual adultery (Hmmm), adultery, absconding with company assets, misuse of company time, sexual molestation, etc... Many therapist would conclude that if this much is "projected" then there is a strong chance that he is up in the melee somewhere with this. If he ain't doing it all (he sure would be busy....) he sure is doing some of it..... 
-------------------- *"Some folks use their ignorance like a umbrella. It covers everything, they perodically take it out from time to time, but it never is too far away from them."*
PrincessDrRe; March, 2007 ~"Blood = Meat, Face = Meat, Internal "Organs" = Meat - you can try to make it cuter; but it's still meat...."~ PrincessDrRe; September, 2007 *(NOTE: Any advice given by Re' Silvey, MSW is not to be taken as medical/mental health advice. Although trained to be a counselor, currently employed as a therapist, and currently pursuing her PhD in Counseling Psychology (ABD/I) - she is not your assigned therapist. Please consult a mental health professional of your choice for a face-to-face consultation.)* |
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