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post Oct 30 2006, 11:04 PM
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Have you noticed that Danny is bringing up The Doctor each time he has a guest on?

One night it was when the Nelson's were on and they were talking about their Ministry Hope for Survivors, in which they help people that have been abused by Pastors and Danny said even Doctors.

Also tonight when Pastor Woosley was on the Pastor was talking about Sin. Danny said yes even sin over the phone.

I wonder if he isn't over Linda yet, or he is trying to say something else.

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post Oct 31 2006, 09:47 AM
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QUOTE(TBONE @ Oct 31 2006, 12:04 AM) [snapback]158688[/snapback]

Have you noticed that Danny is bringing up The Doctor each time he has a guest on?

One night it was when the Nelson's were on and they were talking about their Ministry Hope for Survivors, in which they help people that have been abused by Pastors and Danny said even Doctors.

Also tonight when Pastor Woosley was on the Pastor was talking about Sin. Danny said yes even sin over the phone.

I wonder if he isn't over Linda yet, or he is trying to say something else.

Two things come to mind on this......

1) The topic has served him well as a "red herring" to keep people focused on that rather than on whatever it is that he doesn't want any one finding out about.

2) Obsessions typically rise out of guilt feelings that one isn't handling in better ways. Too bad he doesn't understand about confession and forgiveness as a way to handle sin rather than attempting to keep it hidden. If he would confess, repent, and make restitution for his own sins, he wouldn't have to keep pointing to others in an effort to direct attention away from himself.

So sad. sad.gif
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post Oct 31 2006, 03:33 PM
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QUOTE(TBONE @ Oct 31 2006, 12:04 AM) [snapback]158688[/snapback]

Have you noticed that Danny is bringing up The Doctor each time he has a guest on?

One night it was when the Nelson's were on and they were talking about their Ministry Hope for Survivors, in which they help people that have been abused by Pastors and Danny said even Doctors.

Also tonight when Pastor Woosley was on the Pastor was talking about Sin. Danny said yes even sin over the phone.

I wonder if he isn't over Linda yet, or he is trying to say something else.



Maybe, he unwittingly is talking about himself and/or his brother(s).
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post Oct 31 2006, 05:23 PM
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Who is The Doctor? And what does that have to do with Linda? And why would he not be over Linda? Didn't he dump her???? uhm.gif


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post Oct 31 2006, 05:36 PM
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QUOTE(Eddy @ Oct 31 2006, 06:23 PM) [snapback]158759[/snapback]

Who is The Doctor? And what does that have to do with Linda? And why would he not be over Linda? Didn't he dump her???? uhm.gif

Dr. Arild Abrahamsen, whom Danny accused of "stealing his wife". Read the pinned letters at the top. All of them mention him, and one of them is written by him.

Sure, he dumped her. But for his conservative image, he has to make believe that it was her that ran off from him. How else could he have the "right to remarry"? blink.gif

secret.gif...... (psst.... don't expect anything to "make sense"..... the "brain protection" line to use is "truth is stranger than fiction".)
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post Oct 31 2006, 09:33 PM
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Ok so if I were Brandy right about now, I would be telling Danny's tired tail, "Enough is enough!". He just would not still be talking about Linda err'time he opened his mouth!

Ok, Sorry, this is BSDA, I just had to let it go. Now, Back to our regularly scheduled programming. giggle.gif


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post Jan 20 2007, 10:58 AM
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Yes, I wonder, How is Brandy handling all the rumours or is she even aware of them.
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post Jan 20 2007, 11:52 AM
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QUOTE(Treniece @ Jan 20 2007, 11:58 AM) [snapback]171349[/snapback]

Yes, I wonder, How is Brandy handling all the rumours or is she even aware of them.


She's been MIA from the production center for months.


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post Jan 20 2007, 01:58 PM
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QUOTE(princessdi @ Oct 31 2006, 09:33 PM) [snapback]158774[/snapback]

Ok so if I were Brandy right about now, I would be telling Danny's tired tail, "Enough is enough!". He just would not still be talking about Linda err'time he opened his mouth!


Danny is obsessed with the idea he has to completely destroy Linda. Until he does, he will have been deprived of his greatest entitlement! He feels he is entitled to get rid of Linda, once and for all!He is not motivated by love. It is pure hatred. It appears that the board and some of the staff have no qualms about backing him up.

The problem is, it is not working. We are in his way. He feels he is entitled to his actions and the money. He thinks we have a lot of nerve to question his entitlements!

I also feel that Tommy might even say that God put those boys right there just for him! Otherwise, why would they have been there? He was entitles to molest them. God gave his that right!

They both believe God has given them these entitlements. What do you call that? A God tranfferance?

What on earth could be wrong with us for questioning their God given entitlements! They think we are the evil one! May God help them. God may be the only one who can open their eyes to what is real and what is not real. Even if they are sent to jail for taking what they were entitled to, (Money, sex, destruction of people) they may still think we are of the devil and that they are being persecuted for Christ's sake!

This mess is really sicko. dunno.gif


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post Jan 20 2007, 02:26 PM
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QUOTE(Fran @ Jan 20 2007, 12:58 PM) [snapback]171369[/snapback]

This mess is really sicko. dunno.gif

me thinks this the understatement of the year yes.gif
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post Jan 20 2007, 05:42 PM
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QUOTE(TBONE @ Oct 30 2006, 10:04 PM) [snapback]158688[/snapback]

Have you noticed that Danny is bringing up The Doctor each time he has a guest on?

One night it was when the Nelson's were on and they were talking about their Ministry Hope for Survivors, in which they help people that have been abused by Pastors and Danny said even Doctors.

Also tonight when Pastor Woosley was on the Pastor was talking about Sin. Danny said yes even sin over the phone.

I wonder if he isn't over Linda yet, or he is trying to say something else.

Welcome to BSDA TBONE!

I saw the program you are referring to. What a touching testimony that young couple have! It is a confirmation of their strength in the Lord that took them through Samantha's experience of pastoral abuse and made their relationship stronger instead of breaking them apart! Not only were they able to move past this experience but they also developed the wonderful ministry to help others who have been abused in similar ways and to educate church and conference officials to this potentially devastating behavior by pastors.

When Danny mentioned that the abuse of power is not confined only to pastors but to Christian doctors as well, I gained even more respect and admiration for Steve Nelson for realizing that Samantha was a victim and not a sinful adultress or even a spiritual adultress. He helped with her healing rather than casting her away. Too bad Danny didn't practice the same behavior as Steve.


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post Jan 27 2007, 12:20 PM
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Maybe he was annoyed at Linda even before this experience with the Doctor, so when evidence surfaced that she may have been guilty of adultry, he was more than ready to divorce her.
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post Jan 27 2007, 12:32 PM
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QUOTE(Treniece @ Jan 27 2007, 10:20 AM) [snapback]173187[/snapback]

Maybe he was annoyed at Linda even before this experience with the Doctor, so when evidence surfaced that she may have been guilty of adultry, he was more than ready to divorce her.



What you have suggested is true. I think at some point that will come out as well. There are signs of that out already as people remember how he would make "in fun" jabs at her on TV, and at other times they weren't really covered under the "in fun" way. Just like saying the other day to Tommy (at his farewell performance) how there has never been so much done in production as in the past 2.5 years (a true jab at Linda), which I have to say, I did appreciate Tommy's discomfort in that statement and was quick to bring attention to the CREW that did so much work, that it was a team idea. Danny didn't have to say that, he knew just what he was really trying to say. Very rude and mean.


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post Jan 27 2007, 07:13 PM
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QUOTE(Treniece @ Jan 27 2007, 01:20 PM) [snapback]173187[/snapback]

Maybe he was annoyed at Linda even before this experience with the Doctor, so when evidence surfaced that she may have been guilty of adultry, he was more than ready to divorce her.

Hey, Trenice, I believe you are "spot on," except that there was no real evidence (or we would certainly know it) -- only the possibility that Linda may have become emotionally involved.

It appears that Danny was looking for a reason to get rid of Linda! So he used the flimsiest of excuses to divorce her and to fire her from the ministry for whose founding and growth she was at least equally responsible.


QUOTE(sonshineonme @ Jan 27 2007, 01:32 PM) [snapback]173188[/snapback]

There are signs of that out already as people remember how he would make "in fun" jabs at her on TV, and at other times they weren't really covered under the "in fun" way.

I remember this from at least a year before the divorce, or longer ago. At the time my husband was saying, "There's trouble in that marriage." And he suggested that something was bound to "break."

The jabs were frequent, and Linda would just sort of smile but say nothing in return. I mean, what could she say in front of world-wide audience? It was a similar ploy on Danny's part as when a toddler screams and misbehave in a store, knowing Mommy won't punish him there because of all the people around. Danny made it appear like a "joke," but he subtly demeaned her in front of millions, knowing she could do nothing about it.

Of course, that made some of us wonder what went on off-camera!
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post Jan 27 2007, 08:05 PM
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The jabs were frequent, and Linda would just sort of smile but say nothing in return. I mean, what could she say in front of world-wide audience? It was a similar ploy on Danny's part as when a toddler screams and misbehave in a store, knowing Mommy won't punish him there because of all the people around. Danny made it appear like a "joke," but he subtly demeaned her in front of millions, knowing she could do nothing about it.



By any chance are those videos available? As a newbie in search of my own evidence and not a regular viewer, I would certainly like to see those clips...
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