 This Should Not Be News - Continuation, Letter from Danny Shelton to BSDA |
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 Mar 18 2006, 07:25 PM
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 PrincessDrRe  Group: Financial Donor Posts: 9,028 Joined: 8-November 04 Member No.: 712 Gender: f  |
At Judgement Day will be a lot to say.....
-------------------- *"Some folks use their ignorance like a umbrella. It covers everything, they perodically take it out from time to time, but it never is too far away from them."*
PrincessDrRe; March, 2007 ~"Blood = Meat, Face = Meat, Internal "Organs" = Meat - you can try to make it cuter; but it's still meat...."~ PrincessDrRe; September, 2007 *(NOTE: Any advice given by Re' Silvey, MSW is not to be taken as medical/mental health advice. Although trained to be a counselor, currently employed as a therapist, and currently pursuing her PhD in Counseling Psychology (ABD/I) - she is not your assigned therapist. Please consult a mental health professional of your choice for a face-to-face consultation.)* |
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Mar 18 2006, 10:11 PM
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She maybe thinking more about the ministry that he is. Sometimes things like this are a form of emotional abuse. If she perceives everyone, who really matters, is going to side with him, and he can prove it(which really is in the case), then she may not feel it is worth telling her side.
She didn't even immediately retain counsel for herself, or fight the legitimacy of this quickie divorce. I think it was because of the actions of the 3ABN board and the continued support of GC, without question or investigation into the situation. That can be pretty disheartening and discouraging. He is the one who needed the quickie divorce, that is more suspect to me than anything she maybe hiding. In fact, the reason she is saying nothing is because of the gag order forced upon her by him. I am sure she would have a whole lot more to say. QUOTE(Prisca @ Mar 18 2006, 03:20 PM) [snapback]122078[/snapback] He may not have proof, but he sure has something. There is something that she doesn't want revealed...something that she doesn't want to lose...something that might hurt the children, her perceived future, etc. ... like the lady in A Christmas Carol. When Alastairs gave Mrs. Dibble, was it, the money for a present, she asked what it was for "to keep me mouth shut?" she cocknied. We may never know. Priscilla -------------------- TTFN
Di And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose---Romans 8:28 A great many people believe they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices.-- William James It is better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.- Mark Twain |
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Mar 18 2006, 11:25 PM
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PrincessDrRe Group: Financial Donor Posts: 9,028 Joined: 8-November 04 Member No.: 712 Gender: f |
I bet "what she would have to say" is that he is extremely jealous, has issues with her "having any say" in the marriage, and lastly.....
He's a cheater! If he ain't - GOD forgive me; but the actions that were taken over a phone call merit (IMO) a man that is afraid of being found out as a cheater...... This post has been edited by PrincessDrRe: Mar 18 2006, 11:25 PM -------------------- *"Some folks use their ignorance like a umbrella. It covers everything, they perodically take it out from time to time, but it never is too far away from them."*
PrincessDrRe; March, 2007 ~"Blood = Meat, Face = Meat, Internal "Organs" = Meat - you can try to make it cuter; but it's still meat...."~ PrincessDrRe; September, 2007 *(NOTE: Any advice given by Re' Silvey, MSW is not to be taken as medical/mental health advice. Although trained to be a counselor, currently employed as a therapist, and currently pursuing her PhD in Counseling Psychology (ABD/I) - she is not your assigned therapist. Please consult a mental health professional of your choice for a face-to-face consultation.)* |
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Mar 19 2006, 02:52 AM
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QUOTE(Prisca @ Mar 18 2006, 05:20 PM) [snapback]122078[/snapback] He may not have proof, but he sure has something. There is something that she doesn't want revealed...something that she doesn't want to lose...something that might hurt the children, her perceived future, etc. ... like the lady in A Christmas Carol. When Alastairs gave Mrs. Dibble, was it, the money for a present, she asked what it was for "to keep me mouth shut?" she cocknied. We may never know. Priscilla the something could be as you say in the form of a threat... if you don't cooperate then you will be cut off, or your name will be smeared etc..... So much for loving your enemy... -------------------- "you are as sick as your secrets...." -quote from Celebrity Rehab-
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Mar 19 2006, 07:02 AM
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QUOTE(Clay @ Mar 19 2006, 08:52 AM) [snapback]122119[/snapback] the something could be as you say in the form of a threat... if you don't cooperate then you will be cut off, or your name will be smeared etc..... So much for loving your enemy... ah. protecting the 'work'..ahem! Remember when Samuel went to anoint David? God gave him a way 'out' to protect him from death or at least accusation. Go give sacrifices..always an appropriate thing to do. Our pet saying is,,we must be harmless as doves but... |
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Mar 19 2006, 09:30 PM
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Let us keep praying for Linda who is no doubt sufering much from this ordeal.
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Mar 19 2006, 11:35 PM
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PrincessDrRe Group: Financial Donor Posts: 9,028 Joined: 8-November 04 Member No.: 712 Gender: f |
QUOTE(Jvat @ Mar 19 2006, 10:30 PM) [snapback]122140[/snapback] Let us keep praying for Linda who is no doubt sufering much from this ordeal. 
-------------------- *"Some folks use their ignorance like a umbrella. It covers everything, they perodically take it out from time to time, but it never is too far away from them."*
PrincessDrRe; March, 2007 ~"Blood = Meat, Face = Meat, Internal "Organs" = Meat - you can try to make it cuter; but it's still meat...."~ PrincessDrRe; September, 2007 *(NOTE: Any advice given by Re' Silvey, MSW is not to be taken as medical/mental health advice. Although trained to be a counselor, currently employed as a therapist, and currently pursuing her PhD in Counseling Psychology (ABD/I) - she is not your assigned therapist. Please consult a mental health professional of your choice for a face-to-face consultation.)* |
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Mar 25 2006, 02:54 AM
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Let's also pray for the new wife... I wonder if she understands the concept of spiritual adultery?
-------------------- "you are as sick as your secrets...." -quote from Celebrity Rehab-
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Mar 25 2006, 08:32 AM
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QUOTE(Clay @ Mar 25 2006, 08:54 AM) [snapback]123168[/snapback] Let's also pray for the new wife... I wonder if she understands the concept of spiritual adultery? Oh that a whole new direction, Steve. What if she does or doesn't? How will that affect her spirituality? For some women little is expected of the gentleman except that the previous person was unsuitable. Priscilla |
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Mar 25 2006, 11:39 AM
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PrincessDrRe Group: Financial Donor Posts: 9,028 Joined: 8-November 04 Member No.: 712 Gender: f |
QUOTE(Clay @ Mar 25 2006, 04:54 AM) [snapback]123168[/snapback] Let's also pray for the new wife... I wonder if she understands the concept of spiritual adultery? Oh snap! I didn't even think about that until now..... Whoa...  QUOTE(Prisca @ Mar 25 2006, 10:32 AM) [snapback]123201[/snapback] Oh that a whole new direction, Steve. What if she does or doesn't? How will that affect her spirituality? For some women little is expected of the gentleman except that the previous person was unsuitable. If she does understand the concept - then SHE ALREADY KNOWS that her new "husband" is the only man in her life. PERIOD. SHE ALREADY KNOWS she cannot accept calls from any man (brother in the church, doctor, boss, Father, cousin) without her husband present. SHE ALREADY KNOWS she definately cannot travel anywhere over 10 miles without said husband. If she does NOT understand the concept - then she is in for a heap of trouble...... How will this affect her spirituality? If she is not "grounded" in her faith/belief/love of GOD/CHRIST she will leave the church at the first inkling of "mess" like Linda - or other women (that we do/don't know about) have suffered.... or It could make her stronger - understanding that even in the midst of de "Chach" there is bound to be a debil (devil) or two..... JMO This post has been edited by PrincessDrRe: Mar 25 2006, 11:40 AM -------------------- *"Some folks use their ignorance like a umbrella. It covers everything, they perodically take it out from time to time, but it never is too far away from them."*
PrincessDrRe; March, 2007 ~"Blood = Meat, Face = Meat, Internal "Organs" = Meat - you can try to make it cuter; but it's still meat...."~ PrincessDrRe; September, 2007 *(NOTE: Any advice given by Re' Silvey, MSW is not to be taken as medical/mental health advice. Although trained to be a counselor, currently employed as a therapist, and currently pursuing her PhD in Counseling Psychology (ABD/I) - she is not your assigned therapist. Please consult a mental health professional of your choice for a face-to-face consultation.)* |
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Mar 25 2006, 02:00 PM
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Even if Danny wakes up in the middle of the night and decides that he was wrong and wants Linda back, he can't go back according to our interpretation of the Scriptures. Is that still binding? You can't go back....you just have to follow David, marry Bathsheba and continue forward with repentence and humility.
Priscilla QUOTE(PrincessDrRe @ Mar 25 2006, 05:39 PM) [snapback]123208[/snapback] Oh snap! I didn't even think about that until now..... Whoa... If she does understand the concept - then SHE ALREADY KNOWS that her new "husband" is the only man in her life. PERIOD. SHE ALREADY KNOWS she cannot accept calls from any man (brother in the church, doctor, boss, Father, cousin) without her husband present. SHE ALREADY KNOWS she definately cannot travel anywhere over 10 miles without said husband. If she does NOT understand the concept - then she is in for a heap of trouble...... How will this affect her spirituality? If she is not "grounded" in her faith/belief/love of GOD/CHRIST she will leave the church at the first inkling of "mess" like Linda - or other women (that we do/don't know about) have suffered.... or It could make her stronger - understanding that even in the midst of de "Chach" there is bound to be a debil (devil) or two..... JMO |
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Mar 25 2006, 06:45 PM
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PrincessDrRe Group: Financial Donor Posts: 9,028 Joined: 8-November 04 Member No.: 712 Gender: f |
Whooooooo....
and THAT would be another whole heap o' mess..... What if he did wake up and realize - "I was sooo wrong...." Then he done messed with another woman's life, the life of her children, and .....um.....whooo.... I can't even wrap me head around dis one heyah! 
-------------------- *"Some folks use their ignorance like a umbrella. It covers everything, they perodically take it out from time to time, but it never is too far away from them."*
PrincessDrRe; March, 2007 ~"Blood = Meat, Face = Meat, Internal "Organs" = Meat - you can try to make it cuter; but it's still meat...."~ PrincessDrRe; September, 2007 *(NOTE: Any advice given by Re' Silvey, MSW is not to be taken as medical/mental health advice. Although trained to be a counselor, currently employed as a therapist, and currently pursuing her PhD in Counseling Psychology (ABD/I) - she is not your assigned therapist. Please consult a mental health professional of your choice for a face-to-face consultation.)* |
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Mar 26 2006, 02:29 PM
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Will she be allowed to work anywhere but in his presence? How about the first wife, did she work with her husband? Ride into work with him, ride home with him. Eat out only if he is with you, and you better not try to tip the waiter.
 My observation is this sounds more and more like a jailer.  QUOTE(PrincessDrRe @ Mar 25 2006, 02:39 PM) [snapback]123208[/snapback] Oh snap! I didn't even think about that until now..... Whoa... If she does understand the concept - then SHE ALREADY KNOWS that her new "husband" is the only man in her life. PERIOD. SHE ALREADY KNOWS she cannot accept calls from any man (brother in the church, doctor, boss, Father, cousin) without her husband present. SHE ALREADY KNOWS she definately cannot travel anywhere over 10 miles without said husband. If she does NOT understand the concept - then she is in for a heap of trouble...... How will this affect her spirituality? If she is not "grounded" in her faith/belief/love of GOD/CHRIST she will leave the church at the first inkling of "mess" like Linda - or other women (that we do/don't know about) have suffered.... or It could make her stronger - understanding that even in the midst of de "Chach" there is bound to be a debil (devil) or two..... JMO -------------------- WELCOME to BlackSDA from seraph|m, a BSDA Charter member.
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Mar 28 2006, 05:48 AM
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QUOTE(seraph|m @ Mar 26 2006, 08:29 PM) [snapback]123379[/snapback] Will she be allowed to work anywhere but in his presence? How about the first wife, did she work with her husband? Ride into work with him, ride home with him. Eat out only if he is with you, and you better not try to tip the waiter. My observation is this sounds more and more like a jailer. I think the the first wife passed away -------------------- Queen Den
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Mar 30 2006, 05:36 AM
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QUOTE(Denny @ Mar 28 2006, 11:48 AM) [snapback]123862[/snapback] I think the the first wife passed away You know! People say that as if it is the most honorable way to exit a marriage, but it is not always so. Priscilla |
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